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Friday 11 October 2013

WHY NOT BE YOURSELF?

Have you ever seen a lady changing her mode of speaking on answering a call? In fact,some of the claimed that they've not tasted Eba in their life meanwhile,it's their favourite breakfast,lunch and dinner far back at their village.Do I say village? Jungle I mean.Some behave just as if butter will not melt in their mouth,many of them walk as if earth-quake is about to happen on the same ground they are walking.Friends,an endldss list of such hypocrisy is all around.Am I being sentimental? No! It's applicable to boys also.
Let me say that,people have many but unpukka reasons for being a chamelion and in most cases,they thought of how to achieve their devilish acts or their burning desires by pretending to be who they're not.It's possible for a "guy" to lie to a lady that his dad owns chevron company all in the name of luring her and getting her into his box and who are we to blame if not the lady that has made herself a subaltern to deceit and fantasies.Of what essence are all these?
In most cases,many want to feel belong and will stretch themselves beyond the elastic limit all in the name of gaining popularity.For this sense of belonging,latest phone becomes the priority of everybody even those that have no means of getting cut corners to get one and begin to drown people into deception of how wealthy his/her family is.Gone were the days of BB mentality,the latest crave is first class Android phone.Many BB without BIS subscription!Don't be annoyed with me and if you think I say this cuz I do not have one,you've said it all cuz that's how you look at it.I don't envy.Why not be yourself! That you're using a frog-eye motorolla phone does not define your future because a day is coming when you will have all you need.
Observing all these attitudes keenly,it's nothing but a function of unnecessary comparison-not knowing that comparing yourself with somebody born with silver spoon in his/her our mouth is a route to your early grave.Comparison makes you inferior and if care is not taken,you'll always look for ways of being superior by all means.Comparison kills!
For the fact that,you're interested in a girl is not an avenue to proclaim a false identity of yourself,let her know everything as regard yourself,family and societal background and if she'll take you the way you're,all well and good and if otherwise,good.
To those of you that're always camourflaging,behaving like the son and daughter of mister president in school,doing what your parents are void of its knowledge,this is a warning to you.Many an elephant in school and a rat on getting back home.For how long will you continue in this self deception?
This may look childis, but on a serious note,always be yourself in any environment you found yourself just like biblical Daniel.being yourself speaks better of you than to be somebody else.
You're the best of yourself,don't because of unnecessary glorificatn of madness shed a crocodile tail.
Your family is the best if you think so.Enough of deceit!
Be yourself.
@IscAmao

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