LADIES :LET'S HAVE A SANCTUARY OF
REASONING
Without any sense of remorse I picked up the
withering tendrils of my pen to spite in verse
some words of advice not minding the flow of
criticism that this would/may caused.
My fear for this generation is that
i see ladies in their fruitful and fresh age having
no firm plans for their lives but are desperately
in anticipation to go to the altar thinking that
their husband's wealth would sustain and keep
them going forgetting that this is 21st century.As
myopic this mentality may be so also is its
dangers beyond measure.There is therefore a
great need for ladies to see themselves operating
beyond the kitchen level and feeding fat on their
husband's influence and affluence.They must
stop a parasitic life style and channel the right
course of their lives.Who said that ladies are not
breaking grounds and i will show you people like
Oprah Winfrey,Joyce Meyer,Ngozi Okonjo iweala
et al.
However,pity is the case today that some ladies
are still short-circuited in their thinking,believing
that their destiny lies in the hands of the man
they'd marry.Asking some ladies the plans
they're having for themselves,it'd not surprise
you seeing them eating up their fingers without
being able to do that graphically.But asking them
where they see themselves in the next 4,5
years,the response is always with great
enthusiasm,sharp and quick with rays of laughter
beaming out of their mouths.I'm sure you can
guess what the response wouldd be.I am not
saying that marriage is bad.sincerely it's a good
one,but this must not engulf ladies to the point
of lacking the mental capacity to envisage their
vision.That a lady would end up in a man's
house should not be an end to the vision she is
pregnant with.
The truth here is that;any lady who can better
define her way before getting married would sure
be a good asset rather than a liability to her
husband.In fact the wealth of her husband would
only be a bonus to her and not a dependent
factor.The problem here is that many ladies have
seen their husband as Jesus that will carry their
cross/burden.NO! That should not be.
This sincere truth must therefore sink down into
the subconsciousness of every lady that,'the
value of a man depends on the value of her wife
and value here is defined based on 'stuffs' you
are made up of,not beauty' Seeing ladies who
knows where
they are going gladdens my heart and I
appreciate such.It will not shock you to realise
that the personalities of such a lady becomes a
point of challenge to the man himself.
On this note,it'd be good to draw a close by
saying that ladies can try to see that as much as
they beautify their physical appearances,they
must also beautify their minds and made up of
stuffs that will keep them standing and
flourishing in their own world as well.After all we
have Deborah who stood ramrod for Isrealites
and eventually gave them an outstanding
victory.God is waiting for another sets of
Deborah that would take the world by surprise
and decide the fate of the world,not empty-
headed,timid and lacklusters.
Your husband's house is not the terminus,but
the transit point.Have a change of idea.
