WHY YOU ARE MAD

Without any iota of doubt,the above topic sounds insultive and very odd to the ear.knowing that you'll not hesitate to throw me stones,I'll appeal that you spare me some minutes of your time to read the whole of this piece before you decide my judgement.The simple fact here is that;whether you're mad or not'd be a product of several justification after certain things have been established from the biblical understanding.Filtering this topic through the grids of the bible will help clear your mind so as to gain some altitude.
Let's turn our bible to the book of Acts chapter 26:24 which says 'And as he thus proceed(Paul) with his defense,Festus called out louldly,Paul you're mad! Your great leaning is driving you insane.
Paul's story or trial begins at Acts 23 and runs all the way to the end of the book in Chapter 28.If you're not familiar with paul,it's a story worth reading.But for our purposes,allow me to give a thumbnail sketch of Paul's life in a jiffy.
Before his encounter with Jesus on his way to Damascus, he was a fanatics that takes pleasure in persecuting the church.This life-threatening experience made the apostles to be scattered,yet Paul pursued them.It was on this ministry of persecution that he met Jesus and his life was changed.From that time upward,Paul was suffering from the hands of the Jews that believeth not in Christ becausf of his passion to share the gospel.It's in the course of this he was delivered to Felix,then to Festus,and Festus beseeched Agrippa to hear paul's side of defense for he was dazed.Bro.Paul was able to set his defense straight forward by sharing his old ways of life and then preach christ which he confessed before Agrippa.As he was talking,Festus perceived that Paul was full of biblical knowledge(God's knowledge) that's irrefutable.This made Festus to jump into conclusion, saying ' Paul you're mad!' Can you see the exclamatory mark? That tells you that Paul's cerebral grandstanding is beyond Festus's carrying capacity.Festus should've put it better by saying 'Paul,you're an Emeritus!'
Any which way,Fesus said 'Paul is mad'
However,these questions are worth asking:Why was he not mad when persecuting the church? Why was he not accused of persecuting the church then?
From the above questions,I discovered that by the world standard,believers are tagged to be mad if they're not dancing to the beat of the world that barrels down the express way to hell.You're not mad if you dressed indescently,but you're if you choose to remain descent.You're not mad if you're fornicating,but you're if you keep yourself holy.You're not mad if you're an alcoholic,but you're when your are not.
The above defined the world standard of judging madness.
In this age of ours,choosing to remain holy,descent and godly is being termed as over-spirituality which is equated to 'Christianity Madness' That's when you see people making jest of you by calling you all sorts of name.When you carry your bible going to the church,they shout loudly like Festus 'THE SUs'
This simple fact I want you to know that:anytime you part away with the worldy things and give attention to the firm teaching of the word of God,expect insults that're highly annoying.Expect false accusations,but don't be moved.They'll call you a fanatics because of christ,don't worry.
The undeniable fact is that,a mad man will always see others as mad fellow.Regardless of what is said of you because of your faith,don't drift with the tides.It's better you're a mad man on earth because of Christ than to be turned mad in hell fire.If Festus realised Paul's response in verse 25,he'd know that he is the one being tormented with madness.
No matter how the word 'madness' is being defined by the world's standard,do not join the league of the unholy people.Let your centre of focus be christ.
Festus said that 'great learning is driving you insane' Let people see you learning the way of God.If they see that they'll confess that you're mad for christ because your biblical knowledge is beyond comprehension.
Keep focus in the face of insults and be not discouraged when you're called names that're insultive.

P.S:if you've gained something,kindly share with your friends and drop your comment.
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BURN THOSE BOOKS

I surmise I heard someone say 'Hey! What do you mean Isaac?' To burn my books? Is like you're having the water and blood of destruction running through your body systems.It's either you're dreaming or out of your mind.Don't you know that 'Readers are Leaders?' That's right! I understand how you feel about this.But for your information,not all books set you on rein and that's why you must burn them.

However,I want you to go with me as we'll be filtering this stuff through the grids of the bible.
As I was studying the scripture for 'TheLAfamily' which was taken from the book of Acts,my attention was drawn to a particular bible verse in Chapter 19 while reading the passage for the second time.Acts 19:19 says, 'A number of them who had been practicing sorcery brought their incantation books and burned them at Public bonfire.The value of the books was several million dollars-NLT'
Am pretty sure you've no incantation books,but there is a book you're holding in your hands that has been driving you fast for a long time on a freeway of sexual gratification.The unchanged and unblemished truth is that the devil suckered you to buy those books and movies but you knew it not.Straightly,the book is nothing more than 'Porn literatures'.For this purpose,I'd prefer the word 'Porn materials' Can you remember the last time you chose to buy porn materials in the stead of christian/inspiring novels?Thank God you did.These materials are your incantation books as well if you don't know.They're a sort of platform for you to be fully baptised into the school of immoralities.To you it may be alluring because it satisfies your lustful desires,but you've forgotten that; immoralities is like a degenerative eye disease that gradually change your great future into a grim one.Just stop for a minute and think of the psychological and emotional trauma you're confronted with after watching or reading them(porn materials).Don't forget David.He can be used as a classic prototype for the world of today.After David had watched the porn movie satisfactorily,he pressed the action button and he was never the same after the adultery.Sexual immorality shipwrecked him.Steve Farrar put it so well by saying,'Before his shipwreck with Bathseba,David's life was characterised by triumph.After the shipwreck,there is only one word that described the rest of David's life:Trouble'

That's exactly the same result of your voracious appetite for sleazy materials.Unless you burn/delete those things,you're on a long way down the wrong road.Kindly fish them out,destroy them before they send you packing and burning in hell! Fine,you're right Isaac.So,what's the way out.I want to sincerely stop you from this headlong plunge into this disaster.
The truth is that,it may not be easy but it takes determination.Just fish them out,destroy them,mind not how expensive they're.If it's on your phone,delete it but don't destroy yovr phone(lols..).Then,ask for forgiveness from the Jaws of Life (i.e Jesus).Well,to make the memory out completely may not be easy,but by feeding/concentrating your mind on the word of God and godly things.By this,you'll squirm out of it.Remember Colossians 3 vs 2 which says 'Set your affection on things above,not on things on the earth'.The next time the devil throws up that one sin in your face,tell him to take a long walk off a short pier!

To wrap up this piece,Steve Farrar put it succinctly by saying,'You've an accelerator and you've a brake.When it comes to sin,you need to hit the brake.Stop now.Put a bumper sticker that says 'I Brake For Hidden Sin'
The book of wisdom i.e Proverb 20:17 says, "Bread of deceit is sweet to a man;but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.
Burn it! Destroy it! Confess Your sin! Live a Holy life by renewing your mind that you may prove what is that good,and acceptable and perfect,will of God-Romans 12:2.
BURN THOSE BOOKS TODAY AND SHAME THE DEVIL!
God bless.

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THE RACE OF LIFE 102

Defeat! He lay there silently,a tear dropped from his eye.
"There's no sense running anymore-three strikes,
I'm out-why try?"
The will to rise had disappeared,all hope had fled away,
so far behind,so error prone,closer all the way
I've lost,so what's the use," he thought,
"I'll live with my disgrace"
But then he thought about his dad who
soon he'd have to face.
"Get up," an echo sounded low,
"Get up and take your place.
You were not meant for failure here,
so get up and win the race"
"you haven't lost all,
For winning is not more than this-to rise each time you fall"
So up he rose to win once more,an with a new commit,
He resolved that win or lose,atleast he wouldn't quit.
So far behind the other now,the most he'd ever been.
still he gave it all he had and ran as though to win.
Three times he'd fallen stumbling
three times he rose again.

Too far behind to hope to win,he still ran as he crossed,
first place,
Head high and proud and happy;no falling,no disgrace.
But when the fallen youngster crossed the line,last place,
The crowd gave him the greater cheer
for finishing the race.
And even thoug he came in last,
with head bowed low,unproud;
You would have thought he won the race to listen to the crowd.
And to his dad he sadly said
" I didn't do so well"
"To me,you won,"his father said
"You rose each time you fell"

And now when things seem dark and difficult to face
The memory of that little boy helps me in my race.For all of life is that race;

with ups and downs and all,
And all you have to do to win -is rise each time you fall
"Quit! Give up,you're beaten," they still shout in my face
But another voice within me says,
" Get up and win that race"-Author unknown
Oooo! How I wish you read and re-read this poem onehundred and one times with a perculiar attention to get some meats on why you don't need give up.Sincerely I understand how you feel;you've failed or you're failing and think that there is nothing to bring out of life again,you're hemmed in the dungeon of failure and you've decided to make it your dwelling home or habitat,but this is the good news:you can still make it by changing your present mental design about failure.Rise up, and move,for you're destined to win.Break out of your cocoon to shine.
All you need to do to win -is to rise each time you fall.
Yes,three strikes! But never get out of the race.
I can't wait to re-echo this into your auditory nerves that 'You haven't lost all.For winning is no more than this to rise each time you fall.So,get up and rise to win once more with a new commit.
When you take the last,you may say that ' I didn't do so well' but 'To me,you won'
'You rose each time you fell'
Am pretty sure you're reay to get back on the track.Don't live with your disgrace!
"Get up and win that race "
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THE RACE OF LIFE 101

The opportunity of being an athlete atleast for a moment during my secondary school days podded me to pick up the withering tendrils of my pen and spit in verse what the real 'race of life' looks like.The memory of that day is still very bright and will linger in my non-volatile memory.I guess I'd tell my children about this.
Before the race,I was told that I'll only run for 100 $ 200 metre boys,so,I was prepared to give glory to my house masters at all cost.With internally generated force and determination,I came fist and second respectively.Don't ever think I'm Usain Bolt,but I always put my best to anything worthwhile.Oooh! Come and see sounds of irregular frequencies cheering me up,raining claps for me and jumping up and down like a frog.My head swelled up but never bursted(lols..).Well,you're always friends to people when you're succeeding.No wonder,Mother Teresa said 'when you're successful,you'll attract some false friends and true enemies' Everybody wants to be identified with you.At the end of the two races,it's like ending with apostle Paul's words that says 'I've finished my course...I'm now ready to depart!'
However,my own case was diametrically opposed to Bro.Paul's statement.So,what happened next? Out of blue(i.e unexpectedly),I was called upon to run with the 400 metre boys.Hearing this,my heart vibrated to its depth because I'll run a race that I never prepared for.Reason(s) for being the choice was probably because the person that should was missing or dulged it.I'm optionless,but sincerely I know that running with big boys won't be a bread and butter stuff.It's just a kind of David against Goliath contest.The whistle was blown and the speedometer was turned on.I make my veins to steam courage that I may outstand others,for what's worth living for is worth dying for.The race was running legato.The story swiftly changed on reaching more than the half of the race,my joules dropped and speedometer reads so low.Tiredness crept in.At this point,I gathered momentums to atleast make it to the end.Big boys with long legs don leave me for back.Although,I was not the only one lagging behind, yet was still trying to break others,but to no avail.Few of the audience were cheering me up that I can still do it while majority of those that praised me in the last two runs shifted their attentions away from me.I don't need tell you that when failure attendeth your ways like a flow of river,those that do love you'll loathe/disown you instantly.The temptation to quit was pressing and circulating in my body system,but I refused to compromised
Finally,I reached the finishing line not with my two feets standing but collapsed.I was carried like a baby from the ground.chai! I smelled hell that day.
Just like that I reached the destination though very stressful and energy consuming.My Joy was that I losed not the equilibrium-does not quit on the way.
Hmmm.The above illustration defines the race of life in its simplicity.The first two runs were so smooth which turned everybody a friend.Well done messages were sent for making it.Ooops! the second race wasn't easy;you'll be deserted by your bossom friends and those that congratulated you in your previous successes.
However,to keep moving,you must shun all discouraging words and let your spirit encourage you not to lose focus or quit at the middle of the race.Better it's to get there being the last than to quit halfway.
Don't expect the race of life to be so-so-smooth all the time.
Don't expect all to throw words of encouragement to you.Be the number one source of encouragement to yourself.If you'll not quit,you'll not fail.As much as you're determined to reach the finishing line,you'll get there.The race of life calls for determination,endurance,focus and self confidence.If people believe not in you,believe in yourself.In this journey,don't forget God.If you're ready for this race,be prepared to carry your cross yourself.Your parents can't help carry it,but can only encourage you.Your friends can't help run it,you run it yourself.Don't give up no matter how hard it's;you'll certainly get there and overcome the tracherous iceberg of life.Remember 'quitters never win'
Let me wrap up this piece by the word of Myles Munroe which says 'The successful man on earth is not a rich man,but a finished man'
LET YOUR SONG BE 'I'll finish my race' I'll not give up'
See you there.
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WHY NOT AT THE SAME TIME?

You've come to ask why your friend has gained admission and you've not.Why your childhood friend is now working and you've not gotten any.Reasons why you don't have your own house,why others are building more than a house.Hmmm.Just as you ponder on necessary aspect and impetus ingredients of life missing in your life currently,you feel like committing suicide because you can't just imagine why the nature is working against you.Intimidations from equal colleagues make you look dejected and downcasted.And it seems as if there is no end in sight to your present state of hopelessness.Though,you're laughing,but in a real sense you're not happy.Sitting down alone,you think miles away and tears flow through your cheek to your mouth like a stream of water.Ooh! Your conclusion is that;you can't make it again.You wonder why you're created.Is like your case is worst than that of Job.Now you want to give up.I know how you feel and that's why I've come to bring back your fainting heart from the bottomless pit of hopelessness and to drop dose of encouragement into your mouth.Just stay calm and follow me on this voyage of knowledge.
Few days ago,I was passing through the street that leads to my Alma Mata,as I was going,I looked towards my left hand.Do you know what I saw? A barbing saloon shop.So,what does that needs to do with you? Ooh! You must know it!
As I was going,my spirit told me that;do you know that at a certain time you'll enter into the shop and the time you'll enter will not be the same with that of your friend(s) because the hairs on your heads won't grow at the same time? In the same vein,you may meet some people of your age or below having their hair-cut at the same time with yours.Everyone of you inside the barbing saloon will not cut the same style,isn't it? Yes,it's.After barbing,your friend will see you and feel jealous because you're looking handsomely beautiful(if there exist any english of such) isn't it?Yeah.But mind you,when it's time for your friend to enter the shop to barb also,he'll without any disturbance.Is that true? Absolutely correct! Your friend also came out looking spiffy and you feel jealous as well.Hmmm.Do you now see to it that at different space of time you entered and cut different hair-style?
And so that's how success in life is.You enter the barbing saloon shop with some set of people regardless of age and leave at the same time which shows those that you were able to make it altogether at the same time.Some entered before you,but the same thing is done to your hair but at different time.So,what's your pride?
Well,the above thought-provoking illustrations look somehow primitive but you can try look at it beyond the normal eyes.Obviously,you'll not both enter the place together but your success is pretty sure only that the time differs.As you wait patiently for your own time,you'll be celebrated by those that're ahead of you.So,friends,life is not all about worry since you know that you'll always get there.You may be walking so slow,but don't ever go back.Shake off and move forward regardless of odds of life,wait patiently on God for your own time.However,be ready to pay for the price,knowing fully well that after barbing your hair you'll/must pay.There is always a price for success as well,be ready to pay it.
Don't be ahead of God and don't be behind!
Don't be intimidated!
Don't give up!
Shake off and move on!
Press on to press through!
Wait on God and wait for your time!
See you there!
God bless.
@IscAmao.

ANANAIS & SAPPHIRA:BEYOND THE SUDDEN DEATH 101

I'm pretty sure that you know about these two chaps in the book of Acts,and what led to their instant death is not strange to you.But if you can't remember vividly,just turn your bible into Acts chapter 5 and you'll have a full understanding of the whole scenario.
However,this piece will be discussing about this family beyond the prism of the immediate destruction that fell on them.There may be one thousand and one hypothesis as regard their death.Some may believe that;they're not truly a born again christian,and to some,they're trying to play prank on God.
Well,we're not going towards that direction and so,I'll diffuse into the topic.
Acts 5 vs 1 says 'But a certain man named Ananais and Sapphira his wife sold possession' The possession were sold purposely because of other brethrens,they've their love and interest in their heart because that's the modus operandi in the early church.They were not forced to sell it,but it was sold willingly.
Vs 2 'And kept back part of the price,his wife also being privy to it...' You can be sure that convetousness drove them to do this.The conspiracy between both of them is a product of their unfaithfulness.They may be thinking that the money is too much to give to God in the way you as well do hold back your substances from God or even yourself,not ready to sacrifice for the work of God.
Their death is nothing to me but the etymological meaning of their name sounds interesting and how it relates to christian cycle would be the centre of focus.
It'll surprise you to know that,Ananais and Sapphira mean 'Grace' and 'Beauty'.Wao! What a nice name! However,as good as their name is,their action do not fit their conduct.They were disciples of christ and members of the apostolic church of which no man would belong unless he had a real experience of salvation.This we have to conclude that they're a born again christian because the church was hated and persecuted.Then,what podded 'Grace and Beauty' to deliberate and execute this sinister plan against the Holy spirit,behaving as though they're faithful?
Beyond this I see that their life is applicable to us as well in this age of ours.
Many are christian but not living up to the standard of what christianity is all about.We dwell among the brethren everyday,we sing,pray and perform some spiritual exercise together but our case is a sorry case like that of Grace and Beauty.Both thought that they can bribe God with what seems Okay to them.That connotes the attitude of many,after a sister/brother has fornicated,s/he will then enter the fellowship blowing tongues that is useless and awful to the auditory nerve of God.Thinking that a part and not whole of their being is enough for God.Well,other brethren would think s/he is being used by God not knowing that s/he is making sounds of different frequency.
The mentality here is that,going to church makes you a christian,but obviously that's not all about christianity.If you're not faithful to God,you're not a true christian.On sunday,many dress like an angel,but for the rest of the week,you wonder whether it's that same angel you worshipped with that has turned a masqerade.You may be born again like these two chaps but still having some issues to confront in your life.You may be bearing Phillip,John,Mary,even Jesus but that is not a ticket to heaven.If your ways of life negates the name you be,you need deliverance.
You may camourflage on sunday and for the rest of the days in the week you mingle with the world.You sing 'Holy are you Lord..' on sunday and on monday to saturday,it's 'Caro..' ; You listen to sermon on sunday,and porn films other days;you keep yourself holy today,and mess up on the lap of a lady/boy;you're high on the Holy spirit on sunday,but on entering the world,you're high on alcohol.
Consider all these if they truly show your identity in Christ.Examine yourself if you're not living contrary to what being a christian is all about.
You can't just be flagging the card of being a christian and end up being destroyed like Grace and Beauty.
Take time to evaluate yourself before it's too late.What're those little foxes that negates your christian life? Kow it and confront God with it before the rain of destruction fall on you.
God bless.
@IscAmao.

ARE YOU PRESSED?

Seeing your age mates and bossom friends getting married,your parents pressed on you to do quick.And this is you that's not in any relationship not to talk of counting the number of years of your courtship.What will you do? Will you enter into a relationship with any man and marry ASAP?
Well,you can better answer it yourself.
I used the above thought-provoking illustration to explain a vital aspect of a christian life which will be uncovered as we go on.
Yeah,we've some other areas of life where people are being pressurized to get things done quickly even when what is needed to do so is not available but due to human behaviour,we push people do the right thing at the wrong time by measuring them up with those that have make it.
Then,from which perspective am I seeing this? Let's consider with intense attention the children of Isreal standing at the bank of the red sea when it seems as if their life would be terminated seeing the Egyptians coming behind with furiosity and anger.
The book of Exodus 14:11 says 'And they said to Moses,because there were no graves in Egypt,has thou taken us out to die in the wilderness...'
They(Israelites) were complaining and murmuring against Moses because death is about to drop on them.I wonder how Moses would feel at that hour of their murmuring.
Israelites were murmuring in the same manner your parents lament that; when're we to carry your baby? when're we to enter into your car? When're we to step into your house? When're we to see you doing this and that? They complain bitterly and you feel dejected and downcasted in the same way Moses would be beside the red sea.
Do you know that it,s possible for Moses to use human wisdom because the pressure is becoming much on him? But he never succumbed to his people as they were ready to tear him down.
What was his response in this state of dillema?
Moses voiced out in vs 13 '...Fear ye not,stand still,and see the salvation of the Lord..'
what a courageous word!
With this,I think that should be your response as well as you're being troubled to make decisions which may not be at the ripe hour.You keep your well-wishers calm by telling them that they should not fear about how things are going because it'll not continue ad infinitum.
In vs 14,he says 'the Lord shall fight for you,and ye shall hold your peace' Another words of hope. As at the time you're beside the red sea of life,your words should be 'The Lord shall fight for me,and I shall hold my peace' and see how stable your faith will be.Saying this gives assurance that there is a mighty God that has never lost a battle.
The most interesting part of this scripture is in vs 15 which says 'And the Lord said to Moses...' GOD spoke to him to tell him what is required of him.Moses was not perturbed by the cry of his people to forget the place of God speaking to him on the way out.Assuming he used his own wisdom,nothing meaningful would be recorded of the children of Isreal.
That implies that,when you're pressed,you should be ready to listen to God,the same way Moses does leading to the surprise of all.
Many out of being pressed make untimely decisions and was in haste because others have gone ahead of them without listening to what God's saying and they collapse at the end.
When you're pressed,press the number of God to know how to go about the dillema you're facing.
With faith,He'll see you through.
God Bless.
@IscAmao.

12 GREAT LESSONS FROM JOHN 15:1-8

A perculiar attention to the book of John 15:1-8 reveals 12 great lessons that are very expedient or germane to the growth of a christian.These verses unveil the guiding principles to be a fruitful christian,and am sure that if those principles are given an intense attention,the rapid growth of such a christian is indubitable.
Let me tell you that as a christian if you're not bearing fruit(s) you're not growing and not fulfiling the purpose of your existence as well.
However,the concept of bearing fruit can be understood from the physical knowledge of those factors that're paramount to the growth of fruits.In the physical realm,three essential environmental conditions must be fulfilled,which are;Fertile soil,water and sunlight.Having this understanding,we can better use the physical knowledge to explain the factors that will enhance spiritual fruitness.

Therefore,The Following Are The Great Lessons From The scripture(John 15:1-8)
1.God is the husbandman(v1).
2.Christ is the vine(v1,5).
3.Believers are brances in christ(v2,5).
4.Every fruitless branch 'in me' is cut off,withered,gathered with other dead branches and cast into the fire and burned(v2,6)
5.Every fruitful branch 'in me' is purged that it might be more fruitful(v2,5).
6.Every branch 'in me' is clean(pure in heart tby the word if walking in the light(v3,Mt 5:8,John 3:5,Ephesian 5:6).
7.Branches must 'abide in' christ and christ in them to produce fruit(v4,5).
8.The branch is helpless to produce fruitful of itself(v4,5).
9.Christ is helpless to produce fruit through the branch unless it remains in Him(vs4,6).
10.Branches must abide in Christ or be cut off and burned(v6).
11.Branches must not only remain in Christ but must have His words abiding in them or prayers will not be answered(7).
12.God can only be glorified by the branches when they remain in christ and produce much(v8).
The question is that;are you following g these principles to enhance your fruitfulness? Are you abiding 'in Him' (Jesus)? How much of His words you know?
Don't forget that for you to bear fruit,you must abide in Him.If you're not,you will be fruitless.
Jesus is ready to abide in you,if you're ready to abide in Him.
If you don't want to be burned,follow those guiding principles and you'll be glorified by the father which is the best reward of your fruitfulness.
Bear fruits to show forth the glory of God!
God bless you.
@IscAmao.

OKE-OGUN AND POLITICS

I'll not mind writing this piece at this crucial hour to sensitise and open our eyes to the bitter truth that we may not want to hear,due to political affiliations and differences in this part of the state most especially to the verstatile citizens of Oke-Ogun region of Oyo State and for as many that takes interest in the subject matter.Somebody may think that writing this piece is a product of being sentimental or being a loyalist to a particular political party,but I'll not like you delude yourself habitually in the fool's paradise by castigating me for being a political jingoist because of this pressing issue.The truth must be told and heaven will not fall.
Not to dilly dally,let me delve into the subject of discussion.
I've to ask myself if there exist a region called Oke-Ogun in this part of the state because everything is topsy-turvy here.The region is characterised with low development in which the the birds and fowls can testify to this.You can better access this by taking a microscopic view of your Local Government area if there exist any meaningful growth.Checking through the Local Newspapers,I'm always bemused seeing pictures of developmental projects being celebrated at the state capital meanwhile,all of these are not taking place in this region of ours.All we've here is a stupefying regression.It seems to me as if we're not living on the planet-earth,may be planet-Mercury.Yet they claim that there's an over all development in the state.Then,how can we judge the development that does not saturate the whole part of the state? I've come to argue this out with a friend,glorifying the developments in Oke-Ogun areas by pointing out to road expansion.But the question is that;of what importance is the road expansion that does not promote the econoy bouyancy of the region? I'm not saying that it's not good,but what of those rendered homeless without compensation?
With all sincerity,how many institutions are there in the region? Where is the promise of the technical school ? We can go on and mention as much as possible.The region is known as the food basket of the state,where're industries to improve this.Sentiment apart,the last administration does not neglect the people of the region as much as this.
In the face of this awful spectacle of absurdity,all we need ask is that where are the elders of the region that can jive in the oceans of politics? Have they refused to grow because of what they will eat? Have they sold their birthrights to people of their children's age? It's very shameful and odd to hear that the region which produced the deputy governor is suffering from doldrums of despodency,hopelessness and languishing in hell.Living as though they've nobody to take up their cries.Our case here is contrary to the popular Yoruba proverb that says 'A kii imo eniyan mefa lofa,ki Iya egbefa tu ma je ni' Some people's eyes have been blindfolded to the extent of celebrating the failure of the region on the newspapers,shying away from the truth.To make this piece more realistic,you don't have to look for an elephant with a magnifying lens in a room.How many commissioners came from Oke-Ogun region? We know the nos of commissioners chose at Oyo town.
What is the role(s

) of our representatives there? Are they really fighting for the region or fighting for their pockets?
I think that it's high time we must be realistic in our sense of thoughts and face the truth about the parlous state of this region lest we move from frying pan to fire.
On this note,I'm of a firm opinion that the citizens of Oke-Ogun must take their destiny in their hands.They should wake up from their heavy sleep because there won't be change unless we change the way we play our politics here.Enough of docility and following like Zombie.
There should be a sanctuary of reasoning,expecting no magic to wriggle out of this.Our destiny lies in our hands.
To close,I'll be thankful to those that will make it their lucrative job to castigate me on this matter.
God bless Oke-Ogun Region.
Gmail:isaac.sogo1@gmail.com.
Twitter:Isaacsogo

THE WRONG MAN WITH WRONG DIRECTION

   As I was sitting down quietly some weeks ago,a lady came around and asked a guy for a description of a place, and the guy told her that she should be going in the same direction she's traveling. My attention was caught so, I pronto asked the lady the exact place she's going because I discovered that the guy gave a wrong direction to her. Her journey should be in opposite direction but for the fact that she knew not where she was going, she was given a wrong direction. 

   It'll only astound the lady at the end that she's on a wrong path and will be wandering around without a direction. Immediately I told her of the place, she thanked me.

In fact,where she's going is less than 5 mins walk but she was told to be heading towards the unknown-finding (x).And certainly,she'd waste alot of time going that direction .The only thing that surprised me was that,I expect the guy to know the place because it's a popular place.But how come that he gave a wrong description? So I challenged him.
   After her departure,on getting to my seat,I sense in my spirit the word 'The Wrong Man With Wrong Direction'.The vignette about the lady revealed to me the nature of satan and his ways of misleading people in the world.The devil knows the way but always ready to cover both the inner and outer eyes of a man with darkness so that s/he would waste the prime time within his/her reach.
And how does he feign people? The devil being a cunny fellow misleads people by lieing to them.Jesus in John 8:44 had a full knowledge of the devices,antics and instruments of the devil and He boldly said 'he(devil) is a liar',Jesus never stopped there,He said 'and the father of it' meaning that he gave birth to all forms of lies either you call it white or black lie,even you may customised it and said it's a big or small lie,it's certainly 'lies' and lie will always be lie.
   It becomes an easy task for the devil to deceive people because they are lovers of lies as well.Their ears are never tired of listening to deceptive/dissimulative words from the kingdom of darkness because it suits their evil practices.Jesus understood this graphically that He said in John 3:19 that '...and men loved darkness rather than light,because their deeds were evil' This shows that,if you love lies,you are in the darkness and will ultimately get lost.The more you fall in love with the devil's lies,the higher your rank in the school of satan.If you're a liar,you're indirectly a devil.
Jesus in John 14:6 declared openly saying '...I am the way,the truth,and the life....' Satan heard this when the declaration was made and that is why he uses all frantic efforts to delude people to a wrong way.The question is that 'are you following the way(Jesus)?'
  The master in John 8:44 said that 'He was a murderer from the beginning' The intent of the devil after deceiving you is to send you to eternal destruction.A wrong direction will certainly lead to a wrong destination.
   If all you listen to is the music from the devil,you're not on the right path.
On this note,it'll be wise enough to use 2Corin 2:11,Apostle Paul says 'Lest satan should get an advantage of us:for we are not ignorant of his devices' He's only looking for 'AN' advantage not 'advantages' but don't be ignorant that his way leads to eternal damnation.
The devil will take advantage of every failure of the christian using it to get into his life and cause his downfall(can you remember Judas Iscariot?)

   Jesus is the way, choose Him and reach your right destination!

@IscAmao.

THE GREATEST EXPECTATION OF JESUS

What is the greatest expectation of Jesus for you? Do you know it at all? Have you ever being informed at any point in your life time?
These're few questions that are rigidly germane to the discuss of this topic and as we go on,all will be made clear.
Without any atom of doubt,I'm pretty sure that some people will give me different answers with scriptural backings on this subject of discussion.Somebody may say that the expectation of Jesus for him/her is to be wealthy,successful,globally-known,winning awards and to be famous etcetera.Obviously,all these ones are part of His expectation for you, for he said that 'Occupy till I come...' And I sincerely want to believe that you want to occupy and subdue as well as accrues wealth to yourself.In fact,Deuteronomy 8:18 says that '..it's God that has given you power to make wealth to fulfil his convenant' Why won't you be wealthy as part of his expectation then?
However,recent study of the book of John 14 vs 3 revealed unto me the greatest expectation of Jesus for us.
The bible passage reads thus '...that where I am,there ye may be also' This bible passage graphically point out that Jesus is in anticipation to take those that believed in Him home and that was why he said that 'I will come again,and receive you unto myself..' that depicts that he is coming for a purpose and his expectation for coming back would be because of you and I so that we'll be where He's.He's pretty sure that the place is comfortable and that's why He wants us have a full taste of the place.To certainly point out to us that He will be expecting us,he never said 'Where I,ll be' but 'where I am' Can you see that?
Now,if he's coming to receive you but unfortunately you're missing,how will you feel? Happy or sad?
The question is that;will you still be standing in faith so as not to miss Him?
Brethren,to drive home this piece,let me use this simple analogy for clarity.Have you ever imagine yourself being made the chairman at a special occasion and your seat specially reserved but unfortunately you weren't able to make it to the program for an handful number of reasons.How do you think people that invited you'll feel?
That's what Jesus was saying in verse 3 of the passage that 'And if I go and prepare a place for you...' That means that the place is meant for you,you're a special guest of honour,He prepared it all for you and it'll be the greatest dissappointment to miss that specially prepared mansion that is reserved for you.
Brethren,endeavour to occupy your place in Heaven at all cost.Jesus in Mark 13:24 says " 'strive' to enter in at the strait gate(the gate that leads to your mansion)..."
It's my sincere prayer that the greatest expectation of Jesus would be fulfilled in your life IJN.And heaven will not be sorrowful because of you.
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@IscAmao.

SOME STUPIDITY IN THE CHURCH OF GOD

I canot but address this pressing and alarming issue at this crucial hour of ours.And i don't know whether this unfortunate development in our churches is a function of technological advancement or unseriousness on the part of the youths in the church of God.Anyone you call it,stupidity is still stupidity,no any other name!
It saddens my heart seeing the youth of our days demonstrating stupidity of the highest order in our churches and they call it civilization,taking God as an old school Man.Right there,when sermons were going on in the church it is so surprisen seeing people sending themselves to hell fire by playing with their phones
The knowledge of pinging -blackberry users,has so much dominated the brain of many as if without it,they will not live.Turning God to their girl and boy friends,as if they are mate.You pinging while a sermon is going on and you claim to be a true worshipper in the church.who is deceiving who? God cannot be mocked.
To you 2go users,2go to hell is not far fetched,it is that same 2go that will 2go you their.And if many of you will make it worst,you will not off the sound,disturbing others dt are concentrated as if you are the first person to use 2go in your family.And if the devil will make it a great destruction for you,it is that time you will be seeing friends that will "Hi" you,then you will say i must reply them because they are important friends and through out the preaching you get nothing.In fact, many don't know when the sermon closes.And when they say let's pray,you bury down your head as if you are praying but in the stead you are 2going.who is deceiving who? God cannot be mocked.
To the facebook chat users.standing behind the pulpit,they said let's turn our bible to the "book of gospel according to st.Luke" that is when you open your own bible to facebook as if you are deaf and when they said "book of st.Luke" Are you playing with God? The pastor was reading from "book of st.luke" and you are chatting on facebook,clicking on your various friends as your own verses of the bible.who is deceiving who ? God cannot be mocked!
There are many other social medias like that,that take our attention away in the presence of God.
My brothers and sisters,this the right time we must be realistic in our sense of thought and forsake all these ungodly behaviour.What is now the place of silence that the bible was talking about in Habakkuk 2 vs 20b in us that....let all d earth keep silence before Him(GOD).If in the course of the service rapture occur,what will you be doing,pinging? 2going? Facebook chat? What is your essence of going to the church?If you are doing this,you are not better than unbelievers!
I must tell you the truth,heaven will not fall.change!
God cannot be mocked!

IF THE CHURCH MUST GROW

The topic sounds conditional and I'm pretty sure that you have answered it in your mind by providing the necessary steps that must be taken if the church will grow.Somebody may argue that the church is growing.The other may jump to conclusion that,the church must be spiritually rigid provided her growth will be ascertained.Well,am not too spiritual to understand that (lols...).
It's true that any church that will grow must be spiritual,and am not denying that fact.
However,there is an aspect of church growth that we never take a keen attention to eventhough,it's close to our nose but we've failed woefully to make it works.
No church is an exception in what I want to discuss,only that this degree of absurdity varies from one church to another.Abnormalities,indescency,immoral practices and so on are now the order of the day in our churches and it looks as if there is no end in sight.In all these,we seek for a stroke of magic to squirm out it.It'll be wise to say that no magic can wriggle us out of these evils parading itself in our churches.
Therefore,for the sake of this topic,let's delve into a bible passage to gain some altitude.
John 2:14,15 says
'And found in the temple those that sold Oxen and sheep and doves,and the changers of money sitting'
'And when he(Jesus) had made a small cords,he drove them all out of the temple....'
Jesus on his arrival to the temple was so astounded,seeing corrupt and evil practices swinging like a pendulum bob.He noticed that the essence for which the the church was established has been jeopardised.People were selling and buying,causing distractions and disturbing the order of the program in the temple.But are there no elders to halt these? There're elders but feel unconcerned!
Seeing these,the next verse help us see the action of Jesus towards these abnormalities.The bible says 'and when he had made a scourge...' the bible never say that 'he prayed'.Does He set up committees? 'Does He consulted the governing council of the church?' 'Does He gave them a notification before hand?' Not at all.Jesus made a scourge and after which the bible says '...he drove them out' Jesus took a lion step by going into action to rescue to church.He wasted no time in praying because he had discovered that the issue is less of prayer and more of action.
He doesn't fear what the Pharises would say because the passion(zeal) of his father's house has eaten him up.What a nice decision?
At this stage,I think we must be realistic in our sense of thoughts as a church and point out distractions disturbing the atmosphere of the church,after which actions are taken.But it is a pity that today's church is shying away from her responsibities for the fear of losing church members.Jesus was not concerned about how many people would shun the church because they were scourged.
If a sister wears dresses revealing her nakedness and accentuating her buttock,we must come to the point of telling her the truth instead of exercising the fear of what she'd say.And if it's a boy,he must not be protected.For example,on two several occasions two ladies sitting beside me in the church were 2going and pinging and I can't curtail it but spoke them to face on how wrong it's to be doing so.
Honestly,the church needs no waste time praying without action.Prayer will not work in building a sterile church if we fail correcting people doing such in love.
To bring this to a close,you and I made up the church so,it starts from us.Tell that brother/sister what's wrong about her/him but in love.Don't say it's your pastor that'll do it all,remember that Jesus was not among the church c'ttee.
If the church must grow,more of action and less of prayer must be involved.Take action today by correcting that sis/bro sitting next to u
@IscAmao.

I AM SHARPENING MY PEN

 It is true,I am not a literature student not to talk of being the Wole Soyinka of our time,I have not written articles published on Nigeria newspapers,am far from being a journalist.Yet,I know I will jive in the oceans of metaphor.Sometimes ago,I sharpen my brain to sharpen my mouth and in due time it gains me the attention of commissioners,Honourables and Governor representative but now I am done with my mouth.My mouth must sharpen my pen.
I am not proud of my past achievements but am seeing reasons to re-sharpen my pen.The evil trees growing and gaining ground in our forests must see the dangerous part of my sharpened pen.Their time is up,they oppress the good trees,not allowing them to spread forth their roots,covering their good fruits and showing up their own bad fruits.I am sharpening my pen!
I am not afraid of the thorns neither am I afraid of the wild animals that makes these evil trees their place of abode.The roaring of the king of the forest cannot stop me,the trumpter in the forest is not my fear.The good trees must have their course.I am taking the bull by the horn.I am sharpening my pen!
In case you don't understand this parable,the evil,immoral behaviour must see themselves inked down until the whole enviroment is saturated with good and Godly deeds.
Our politics must experience revolution.Our sharpened pen must show the true colour of who they are.Prepare for another civil war without ammunitions.It is a war of pen.
My own pen is ready.sharpen your own and let's go to the forests where evil people are canvassing good people.
I AM SHARPENING MY PEN @isaac.

THE SAME STANDARD

The world is revolving on its axis,the sun rises and it sets,the day breaks,the night no more.Everyday presents us with new ideas and innovations.The world system is changing,new inventions on a daily basis,the success of yesterday is the failure of today.Scientific knowledge is making a great impact and everybody strifes to use the latest.
Now,all of these are inevitable because we are in the 21st century.Anybody not rolling/moving in the direction of all these changes is not on a planet-earth,may be planet-pluto.Nobody wish to be left behind because new things are admirable.
However,as good as all these appear,we must not forget the most important thing as we're going down the lane.All may be changing,but the word of God changes not.God Himself never change his standard because of the changing world.I've read my lecture notes times without number and not better than the previous time I've been reading them,but as much as I read the same scripture,I get a new interpretation by the help of the Holy spirit.The same word with different meaning.Each verse of the scripture illuminates our minds to see new revelation.
The devil is full of dissimulation to make us believe that the beauty of the world and all in it is the best we can have.No wonder,he tempted Jesus with technologically built materials that're glamorous and good to behold which will ultimately tends to nought.
Of all the greatest deceit is the believe that God system changes in the direction of the world and so His judgement will be in resonance to the current or daily developments in our age.What a lie? And many out of ignorance hold firmly to this,thinking that God is Bill Gate.The God I know changes not and His modus operandi changes not.
The God of yesterday,today and days to come.He's not moved/freaked! Let everybody turns an aeroplane as a human being flying in the sky,He remains unconcerned! Be not deceived,God cannot be mocked.
Brethren,to drive home this piece,the bible says that 'the foundation of God standeth sure.....' God expects us to take our stand even in the face of the changing world.If a christian would follow the idea of 'as the world changes,we ought to change in such a direction' HEY! That may be too precarious and heavy to bear.
God is looking for people like Daniel,the 3 Hebrew guys,Joseph,Jesus et al that never compromised their faith in the face of the changing world.
Decide today to stand for God.
The equation of God's standard is constant (k)!
@IscAmao.

THE ANSWER IS IN 'THY MOUTH

There was a little boy who was looking for some candy eggs at Easter time.His mother had hidden them,and promised him that the candy eggs were in the room,but he must find them.
'Well,he started looking-first under the chair in the corner,then under the couch,then behind the table,under the rug and behind the seat cushions.His mother prompted him,Timmy,you're getting near,you're getting very near,Oops! No,you're far away,' etc.Well,Timmy kept looking for a long time,periodically getting close and then further away,but he just couldn't find those Easter eggs.
Finally,he stopped and indignantly put his hands on his lips and looked up at his mother in dissapointment.She exclaimed,'Timmy,you're real close,you're real close! Surprised,he looked down,only to see that his hands were near his slightly agape coat pockets.He thrust his hands into his pockets,and there were the candy eggs-right in his pocket'
This illustrates the way many of us pray.We are trying to find God and the answer to our need by 'ascending up to heaven' in our searching or 'descending into the deep' in our seeking.
We search,we pray,we fast,we seek(all of which are scriptural);but what saith the scripture? The things you're looking all over for ".....is nigh thee,even in thy mouths,and in your heart, that is the word of FAITH we preach to you (Romans 10:8)
Brethren,this is the season to speak to the atmosphere because you shall have what you decree,because you believe and it belongs to you'
Speak the word of faith into the atmosphere!
Declaring ASAP!
It's yours!
You shall have it!
Speak it over your life,finances,academics,relationship,family,health....
And you shall have what you decree because it belongs to you Ijn
God bless IJN.
@IscAmao.

WHY JESUS NEVER ANSWERED HEROD

Herod wanted proof-some unusual happening in nature to confirm Jesus' claims as messaiah.Meanwhile,Christ had already proved every claim of His and had fulfilled every prophecy of what messaiah was to do,so He ignored the wish of the king.Herod had over three years to make proper investigation and would have found many signs if he had in any way been honest and sincere in his seeking for truth.Christ,knowing the hypocrisy and unconcern of Herod,did not give him any satisfaction by even answering his questions....Luke 23:9

WHY MARRIAGES COLLAPSE

I have come to ask why marriages collapse or shipwreck? Why would a wedlock turns a padlock? How come that what should be a paradise on earth turns to an hell on earth? As light as these questions are,it's a very sensitive one that's heart disturbing most especially seeing christian homes on fire,boiling and tearing apart.When the centre could not hold again in a family,things must certainly fall apart.Many may jump into conclusion that,it's the devil at work or the handiwork of some 'Iyas in the family house' as a result of this the couple moves from one mountain to another,descend to the deepest part of the earth seeking spiritual solution to the problems rocking their marital home.
But the sincere question we ought to ask is whether the devil is the main actor in the scene or not?
As I browsed through the word of God,my eyes of understanding was opened to gain a vivid knowledge of how we may be mistaken the devil for this failure in the family.So,what is the outcome of this knowledge? Firstly,I thank God that my eyes of understanding has been enlightened {Eph 1:18} through his word because it's a living word that proffer solutions to controversial and confusing aspect of life.All thanks to Him.
Not to dilly dally,let's therefore look at a scripture passage and gain some altitude.
John 2:1,2 says that '..there was a marriage at cana of Galilee...' And Jesus was called(invited),and his disciples to the marriage'
Jesus was at the marriage venue not because he was hungry and want to 'chop' the remnant,neither was He there to do 'sabojo' not at all.He was not wandering about at the reception ground but He was invited,meaning that He was given an invitation letter.That shows that Jesus was matured in attending ceremonies,if he was not invited,he'll not go.
Note that,the marriage was running legato,everybody was happy with the couple because all is available,drinks,foods et al were all smilling on the table not until verse 3 when scarcity set in.It says 'And when they wanted wine..' That shows that at this stage everywhere is in commotion because they're salivating already.Seeing this,the mother of Jesus turned to Jesus for help..
Let's stop here to give a deeper explanation to this.
You'll discover that,at a start everything was going well with the couple and people were praising and dancing with them,but all of a sudden they became subjected to disgrace,ridicule and scarcity and they must be thinking of the way out of the impasse.
Before this time,the audience must have been giving them signals that things don dry oo.At this stage,they are between the red sea and don't know how to go about it.Thanks to the mother of Jesus who quickly discovered that Jesus was on ground.
However,provided Jesus was not invited,it's undeniable that the collapse of the marriage would be the talk of the town and a marriage that's going well will just end or shipwreck in a twinkle of an eyes.  
Having this understanding,my eyes were opened to see that many christian homes are on fire because Jesus was not invited.They thought that all will be smooth or may be their union will be challenges free and so withdraw the invitation letter from Jesus.Note that,Jesus was not on the high table but he was invited,we've rich and big men/women on the high table but as rich as they were,they couldn't rescued the couple,that should tell you that even the presence of important personals at your marriage would not determine the real success of your marriage.Let president Jonathan/Obama attend your marriage,if Jesus is not invited,your wedlock will ultimately be padlocked.At the intervention of Jesus in vs 7 and 8 produces 162 gallons of entirely different wine for people.Meaning that,the presence of Jesus in your marriage will help restore your joy in multiple in the face of challenges and people would be perplexed at the restoration of your marriage,the same way people tasted a new wine.Jesus delivered their marriage from collapse because He was invited.
To this end,would you invite Jesus to your marriage?
@IscAmao.

THE THIEF IN YOUR HOUSE

I want to use this prime time to tell you the truth about the thief in your house that you do not know.You wonder if that's by any means possible.You may be thinking that the thief is the devil,but devil is far from it! Your erroneous believe is that this scallwag is afar off but not far at all,he's sleeping with you always.Anytime you see the thief afar off,you cast stones on him but fail to kill the one on your bed.
It looks as if am becoming too proverbial in my approach on this matter so,let me drop this and speak in Greek for a better understanding.
The only thief that is romantic to you and never know is 'corruption'. You doubt it? I'm not a politician now so,how can I be corrupt,lailai.I'm sure that is your point of argument.Weldone!
However,no matter how solid your point of argument is,this one I want to tell you is an unarguable reality of life.
This is nigeria,anybody can nail those at the apex of the affair,you can libel,slander,disect and analyse how manipulative our leaders are.You can never be in lack of the suitable adjectives to qualify this repugnant attitude that's growing at a geometric rate on a daily basis in our country and am pretty sure you will not mind killing them if you get a gun and a chance to.Why won't you do that,you're on strike,Stella Oduah bought two bullet proof cars.It worths more than killing.But I no dey there o..Don't kill o.
All well said,but why removing the mote in your brother's eyes when there is a beam in yours? Everybody want a better Nigeria and expect the people over there to change while they're not changing situations at the base.You speak more of the thieves we're breeding in Nigeria without addressing the ones sleeping and romancing with you.Where's the change then? Do you remember the last time you impersonated in an exam? Ah brother! Can you recall the last time you jumb the queue in the bank? Don't you remember the last examination you took,how you indulged yourself in malpractices? What of the refuse(s) you dropped inside the gutter? What of littering of the street? Can you still recall how you pay a police man because your documents were not up to date? You impregnated a lady and rejected the pregnancy.That one no be corruption nah.You dress indescently.That one nah life bah? Evil practices are inexhaustible!
We can mention as much as possible.The truth is just that,this cry for a sterile society can only be achieved by you killing the growing thief beneath you before he becomes uncontrollable because as at the time you'll get to a bigger position,you'll be robbing everybody the same way our ogas are doing.
Don't talk of those ones the media report but be faithful about the thief on your bed.
Let all poison those thieves before they grow up beyond the control.

The Thief In Your House
#@IscAmao#

HOLINESS IN RELATIONSHIP

I heard something like 'virginity is a lack of opportunity' wao! What a speculation? But how do you expect those that're maintaining their virginity to feel? Happy or in melancholy? It's as a result of this I put my ink on paper to bring the issue under the beam of light for more illusion and understanding as far as the subject matter is concerned.Not because am in any relationship,in fact am not thinking of any now.May be.....years to this time.Don't just ask me why.That aside,if this issue would not be discussed considering the word of God many may continue to delude themselves with saying that cannot hold water.
Whether virginity is a lack of opportunity or not would be a product of several justification after certain facts have been established here.
Let's therefore look at a scripture passage and gain some altitude.So,I jump into the book of Luke 4:27 which says 'To a girl never having being married{and} a virgin in engaged to be married to a man...' That should tell you that I want to use Mary has as a yardstick to discuss this controversial issue.It's obvious that,sister Mary is into a serious relationship with bro.Joseph but through out the period of their relationship,it's not recorded that they defiled their own body.Before entering into the relationship,Mary was a virgin and after entering into it,she remained the same.I'm pretty sure that there'd be an occasion whereby they'll both have an opportunity to do something funny but they allowed not the flesh manifestation.The purpose of their relationship is known to both.
Having this understanding,I come to the point of knowing that relationship is not an avenue to fulfil sexual urge/thirst by either of the two party neither is it an opportunity to delve into unholy practices.
However,the present age of ours have given an evolutionary change to what relationship should be.It's now generally seen as a medium to satisfy the lustful desire of their heart.Many deceive themselves by saying 'they want to have a taste of themselves before the marriage to test each other potency' what a wrong thought?
Many relationship is to manipulate the other party,unnecessary demands are made all in the name of relationship.
If all these define unholiness in relationship,what should a godly relationship be?
The book of Romans 12:9 explain this,it says 'Let love be without dissimulation,abhor that which is evil,cleave to that which is good' Let's deal with each separately.

WITHOUT DISSIMULATION.
This shows that any godly relationship must not be built on deception either by the male or the female folks.A man should not be keeping ten ladies and telling you that 'you're the only one he has'This is not holiness.If you'll go with a lady,just do that and not play on them like a game,saying if this one does not work the other will.That's a plain deception.You don't have to lie about your family background to gain her approval,tell her all about yourself without hiding anything even,your past.cleave to one and build a rigid relationship that's void of feigning.

ABHOR EVIL
The word abhor means: to hate or regard with extreme repugnance or aversion,detest utterly,loathe,abominate.A godly relationship must not give room for evil practices of any degree.Sexual satisfaction must be loathed to have a serene relationship.

CLEAVE TO GOOD
I'll like to emphasize that the essence of any relationship is to grow in all facets of life and most importantly ,spiritually.If there is a relationship that is not glued to good conduct,it's not yet a relationship.Then,how can you cleave to that which is good? Spiritual activities,studying of the scripture together,projecting into the future,praying together,admonishing one another et al
Through this,a goldly home would come true.
If your relationship lack all these,try get it right.Not to late.
To bring this piece to a close,Mary fulfil purpose by keeping herself holy before God and she was rewarded and so also is the reward of being holy in relationship we keep.why not a disflowered vessel? Well,God is looking for a fora womb to fulfil His purpose and she was found.To clear argument here,if you've been disflowered,God's still interested in you and He can make you relevant.
Brethren,let's go with bro.Paul's word in Rom 12:1 'I beseech you therfore,brethren..to present your bodies a living sacrifice,holy,acceptale unto God...'
The essence of your relationship is to grow.Are you growing?
@IscAmao.