Have you ever imagine yourself tightly fixed on a queue and being tossed to and fro like a pendulum bob? In this struggle,somebody stepped on you,looked back and face the front again without saying a word.I know tha your expectation would be that the person should say "sorry" Then you say to that person,don't you see that you stepped on me? And s/he replied saying,"not my fault,atleast you could see people pushing me to the front and back" You feel aggressive and keep mute.
Well,ordinarily,it's in our attitude as a human being to be driven with no sense of remorsefulness about our deeds because of our egocentric attitudinal behaviours.We shift blames,not willing to accept our fault.But why is it always difficult for us as a person to feel sorry,even when we're guilty? Let me say that the word "sorry" in a deeper sense of it is more than how we think it and that's why it has always been difficult to feel sorry our attitudes.
Then,what does it means to be "sorry" Sorry is when you admit that you're wrong and that such will never happen again.As simple as the word is,it's very weighty and that is why every one of us turn down the chances of feeling sorry for our attitudes.The hardest part of "sorry" is when you're compelled to feel sorry for what you've not done.Have you ever experienced that?
It'll be very encouraging if we admit once and for all that we're wrong than to give unwelcome excuses of our wrong doing.If we've this understanding,a brother will not find it difficult to admit his fault towards his younger brother likewise the sister.The husband will not be driven by the "head mentality" if the knowledge of fault admittance is gained.Relationships will not shipwreck,if the two partners understand the power of "sorry" Family will be happy if the parents could say sorry to their children not minding their position.
The world would have been a better place to live if we are not always shifting blames.For it'll be a great thing to have this at the back of our mind.For saying it,it neither decrease nor increase us instead it fastings our relationships.
Don't always find a way of cutting corners when you're at fault,learn to say "sorry"
By saying this,you'll feel unaccussed and comfortable in your spirit and appreciate the worth of each other.
Importantly,you may not be guilty but if for the sake of peace you try and take the burden on yourself to feel sorry.I know it's difficult,but you can always do it.You can!
I know it's not your fault,but you can always see it to be yours for peace and for the interest of building a strong relationship with people.
Thanks and God bless.
@IscAmao.
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